I always find it weird that some people always figure it's the other guys fault.... I've heard several people say things along the line of "man, if anyone did that to me I'd <punch him out / light him up full auto / etc>" sounds to me like they are just part of the problem waiting to happen
I'm just glad to say I've appreciated playing with some of the best, coolest and well natured guys around, it's why I still play.